Christine Schewe • December 11, 2025

How an Abundance Mindset Transforms Leadership and Life

This episode is a quick one, but it lands. Jami and Andrew zoom in on a single word Andrew texted on the way into the studio: abundance. Not as a motivational poster idea, but as a leadership posture that changes how you make decisions, treat people, and lead through hard seasons.


The punchline is simple: abundance is the opposite of scarcity. And scarcity is almost always rooted in fear.


Defining abundance: the opposite of fear and control


Andrew frames scarcity as a fear-based operating system. It often shows up as:

  • Control
  • Protection
  • Tight-fisted thinking
  • “There’s not enough” stories (time, money, talent, opportunity)


Abundance is the counter posture:

  • Trust
  • Love
  • Openness
  • “There’s enough” confidence, even when the situation is hard


A key thread: abundance is not denial. It does not pretend things are easy. It is a decision to lead without fear running the show.


Abundance in the everyday roles of leadership


This conversation keeps returning to how abundance plays out across the roles leaders actually live in:


  • Husband
  • Father
  • Entrepreneur
  • Advisor and connector


The point is not that some roles require abundance and others do not. The point is that scarcity leaks. If you live in fear in one area, it finds its way into the rest.


A practical business metaphor: the car lot principle


Jami offers a simple visual: car dealerships on the same road.


Volkswagen is across from Chevy, which is next to Toyota, which is down from Volvo. They cluster because buyers want options. No one says, “We can’t open another dealership. The market is taken.”


That is the abundance mindset in business:


  • Competition is not proof there’s no room
  • The presence of others can validate demand
  • Opportunity expands when you stop treating success like a limited resource


The early-stage trap: scarcity as a victim mindset


They call out a common entrepreneurial storyline:


“We’re struggling because we’re small.”


And then they dismantle it.


Every stage is hard:


  • Team of 8 is hard
  • Team of 18 is hard
  • Team of 80 is hard


The difference is not the difficulty. The difference is how you relate to it.


From an EOS® lens, hard is expected. Hard means there are issues to solve. And leaders are paid to solve issues, not to wait for a magical future where the issues disappear.


Scarcity hides in time and money


When the conversation gets concrete, two scarcity categories show up again and again:


Time scarcity: “I don’t have time to call them back.”


Money scarcity: “What if we can’t make payroll?”


Andrew points out something subtle: scarcity can disguise itself as practicality. But many times, a few minutes of generosity changes someone else’s trajectory, and the “no time” story is just fear in a more acceptable outfit.


True abundance: giving without expecting a return


This is where they get precise.


Abundance is not “I’ll do good so good comes back.” That still centers the self. That is still transactional.


True abundance is:


  • Giving because it’s right
  • Helping without running the math
  • Trusting you’re not losing by being generous


Andrew ties this to faith: doing what’s best for others and trusting that provision is real, even if you cannot see it yet.


Provision, payroll, and the fear that lingers


Andrew shares a leadership wound many business owners carry: 2008.


He describes how that season created a scarcity imprint. Even years later, fear can sit in the background of decision-making, especially around payroll and growth.


And then he describes a shift that did not come from more evidence or better spreadsheets. It came from a heart change. He looks back and sees:


  • Since going out on his own in 2021, he has never missed a paycheck
  • As the team grew, they never missed payroll
  • The fear was not coming from the present reality
  • It was coming from an unresolved past experience


This matters because it names a leadership truth: strategy can be sound and fear can still run the room.


Curiosity vs. being right: abundance’s close cousin


Another key connection: abundance and curiosity go together.


Scarcity tends to create:


  • Close-mindedness
  • Rigidity
  • “There’s only one way” thinking


Curiosity creates:


  • Options
  • Openness
  • Detachment from needing to control outcomes


Andrew references the “curious vs. right” principle (often discussed in conscious leadership frameworks): when you must be right, you’re locked into a single path and attached to the outcome. When you stay curious, you can see a million paths forward while still staying responsible.


Abundance is contagious: the ripple effect in community


One of the most tangible sections of the episode is their description of working alongside other leaders in a shared co-working environment.


Abundance becomes visible when:


  • People genuinely ask how you are doing and mean it
  • Introductions happen naturally, without a hidden agenda
  • Help is offered freely
  • Collaboration becomes the default culture


They describe abundant leadership as something you can feel. And when you feel it, it spreads.


Teams take on the same posture. Communities rise together. Momentum becomes collective.


The tipping point emotion: courage


A powerful close: the shift from scarcity to abundance often requires one emotion first.


Courage.


Courage is what allows a leader to do the opposite of their default fear response:


  • To stop protecting
  • To loosen their grip
  • To trust again
  • To lead forward without guarantees


And once that shift happens, they name the real marker of abundance:


You remove the filter that asks, “What’s in it for me?”


That question is scarcity in its purest form. When it quiets down, leadership gets lighter, cleaner, and more effective.


What to take with you


If you lead a team, a company, or a family, this episode leaves you with a clear mirror:


  • Where are you making decisions from fear and calling it wisdom?
  • What are you trying to control because you don’t trust provision?
  • Where could curiosity open more doors than certainty ever will?
  • What would change if you led the next 90 days from abundance instead of protection?


Because when employees believe it, customers buy it.

And abundance is one of those beliefs that shows up everywhere once it’s real.

Show Notes: Inside the 90™ Episode #28

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